Confidence doesn’t always just show up because we want it to. If we just relied on our confidence to show up, even after we just failed or made a mistake, it wouldn’t. You know this because you’ve seen your daughter show up with ZERO confidence after a slump, mistake, embarrassing herself, a bad game, a bad practice. You can see it all over her. Her body language, her demeanor, her face.
Confidence is created. Confidence is created so that when you do fail, you can still show up with confidence. No matter what happened before.
So, here’s the formula for confidence.
Thoughts + Actions = Confidence
Thoughts = positive affirmations, reminders, truths, self love, positive self talk
Actions = writing down those thoughts, putting down those thoughts somewhere where you will see them (equipment, arm, note, etc.), visualizing the success you want, deep breaths, practice
This is how confidence is created even in the hard moments.
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